I'm sorry. That must be hard.

I know you're good and that you've been through something terrible that hurt you so much it feels like you won't ever get over it. And I know I care about you an awful lot and I'd like to be able to actually spend time with you in person. And I know you need time to try and heal and figure things out.

And I know that I'll do anything you want or need to help you. No matter what that is.

I... I don't know about the grown-up part, though.